A WAY TO BELONG

 

 

REFLECTIONS ON THE WRITER AND THE SELF

 

 

Randhir Khare

February 2007

 

The first strand of the story begins in the latter part of the 19th century in India. The son of a zamindar in Uttar Pradesh finds his family lifestyle and priorities unacceptable and leaves home to seek his own fortune and educate himself. He becomes a criminal lawyer and dedicates his life to fighting cases related to crimes committed by both the upper castes and the colonials against poor agricultural labour.

 

During the course of his work he meets and marries the daughter of an Irish settler. He is Hindu and she is Catholic. Since neither wanted to marry according to the other’s faith, they become Buddhist and marry under Buddhist rites. Later, Irish superstition drives them to Catholicism. However, their inherent open mindedness encourages some of their many children to embrace other religions by choice. Their eldest daughter embraces Islam.

 

The second strand of the story begins in England early in the 20th century with a young man from a family of coach-makers. He doesn’t fancy the idea of ending up in the business so he runs away from home, enlists in the army and ends up on the battlefields of Mesopotamia. While engaged in one of the many disastrous encounters of the first Great War, he is riddled with shrapnel and sent crawling away over decomposed bodies, through slushy rat-infested trenches, until he reaches a medic outpost and is saved.  When the war ends and the economy of the country is in a shambles, the young man comes to Tuticorin in south India to seek his fortune among the natives. He meets and marries the daughter of a Spanish silk and spice merchant.  

 

What brings these two families together? Love.

 

The youngest of the brood of thirteen children produced by the Indian lawyer and the Irish settler is a swashbuckling, impetuous, young man who meets the daughter of the English private and the Spanish senora in a department store in Madras, virtually sweeps her off her feet and they soon find themselves married. 

 

They are my late mother and father. As their third offspring, I continue the story…of course in not so romantic a fashion!

 

With these varied veins crisscrossing inside me I have always felt  ‘different’. From a very early age, perhaps four or five, in Calcutta, I was acutely aware that I did not ‘belong’. Of course I was far too small to either understand the feeling or let it affect me but nevertheless I did feel as if I was in a fish bowl. Because family experiences of being in-between prompted both my parents to have friends who were either emigrant settlers or fringe dwellers, we lived amongst suspended social groups. But what persisted was a sense of family, a memory of our varied beginnings, an awareness and acceptance of where we had come from and who we were. In truth, we were the living debris of history, held one to another by the sheer force of necessity and the need to belong.

 

In school whilst studying a chapter on Indian Independence, a patriotic teacher made each of us stand up and clearly reiterate our ‘identity’. She was appalled when she got mixed responses. One Jewish kid said he belong to the Promised Land, an Armenian emigrant said that he was Armenian, a lad from Midnapur said he was Bengali. When my turn arrived I said that I wasn’t sure. When the surprised teacher adamantly prodded me I proceeded to narrate my ‘roots’ story. She sent out of class because she thought that I had been humouring her.

 

This feeling of ‘not-belonging’ persisted. My attitude towards myself and the world around me changed when I was eleven. Thanks to a brutal English teacher at school. I remember the man had asked us to write a short story for homework. I did but absentmindedly left my work at home. When I got to class he spotted the uncertain look on my face and instinctively asked me to stand up and read. Terrified, I picked up a notebook, opened it and staring at its blank pages, narrated a story. I can never forget the excitement when I discovered that I was actually holding the class spellbound.

 

The newly discovered feeling of completeness and belonging was abruptly terminated by the teacher when he discovered that I had duped him. “Liar,” shrieked the man in his trademark high-pitched voice, and slapped me.

 

One of my favourite writers Isaac Singer once said, “when I was a little boy, they called me a liar, but now that I am grown up, they call me a writer.”

 

Looking back at that time, I think that two significant forces were at play: the creative force in the making of the story and the reactionary force of the teacher.

 

When telling the story, I lost all feelings of otherness and difference as I became absorbed in the spirit of the story. This spirit enveloped all of us – the storyteller and his listeners. The story was the silver cord that connected me to others. Ever since then I think, the act and process of writing has been for me the magical cord that has connected me to the world around me. It is my way of bonding with life. And through that bonding, reaffirm the very reason for my being. Perhaps this may also be one of the reasons why ‘the self’ is often more obviously present in my writing.

 

The other significant force that was apparent was the teacher’s reaction to what I had done and his inability to see the wood from the trees. His tunnel vision shut out a wider and deeper reality. Like a mythological hero before him, he saw only the eye of the bird and nothing else. This narrowness of vision, purpose and attitude that the teacher displayed has represented for me the arrogance, intolerance, shortsightedness, insensitivity and oppressive attitude that I never cease to react to and resist in much of my writing.

 

A combination of these two forces has I would say instinctively driven me into areas of living that have stimulated me to write. I write when I go through an experience intensely, seeing, smelling, tasting, touching and hearing…yes, experiencing it first hand. Not reporting it for what it is but ingesting it. Letting it lie inside me, fermenting, releasing its own juices of reality. The experience is reborn as a story. Twenty years of experiencing and ingesting and fermenting produced my translation of the Bhil song-poems, many years went into the book on Kutch, likewise the book on the Dangs or my short stories and poems and novel.

 

And what do I get at the end of the day? The satisfaction from having crafted a story that has been born from experience. Yes, the Self is very present in my work.

 

I’ve often been accused of being a fence sitter, of not taking sides. “A writer,” according to Singer, is basically a story-teller, not a scholar or a redeemer of mankind.” 

 

By telling a story a writer keeps memory alive. “ The struggle of man against power,” wrote Milan Kundera, “is the struggle of memory against forgetting.” It is perhaps this need to remember and never forget that has stood as a challenge against totalitarianism and the force of violence. And it will be this remembering that will be the single most powerful humanizing influence that will pull us through in the end. The twentieth century alone saw innumerable acts of barbarism, one quickly erasing the memory of the other. The giant machinery of those in power whitewashing the memory. But on the frontiers of the spirit, the power of memory still resists the onslaught.

 

In his poem ‘Time an Memory’, Horst Bienek writes,

 

“All that moves

can be changed

but not what is frozen

in our memory

this is meant to endure.”

 

Alexander Solzhenitsyn in his Nobel Prize acceptance speech said, “To reach this chair…I have mounted not three or four temporary steps but hundreds or even thousands, fixed steep, covered with ice, out of the dark and the cold where I was fated to survive, but others, perhaps more talented and stronger than I, perished…Those with a name in literature who vanished into the abyss are, at least, known; but how many were unrecognised, never once publicly mentioned? And so few, almost no one ever managed to return. A whole national literature is there, buried without a coffin, without even underwear, naked, a number tagged on its toe. Not for a moment did Russian literature cease yet from outside it seemed wasted.”

 

Another view of surviving was expressed in 1984 by Primo Levi. Forty years after his return from the death camps, Primo Levi wrote a poem, “The Survivor”, dedicated to his friend Bruno Vasari, who survived internment in Mauthausen.

 

“Once more he sees his companions’ faces

Livid in the first faint light,

Grey with cement dust,

Nebulous in the mist,

Tinged with death in their uneasy sleep.

At night, under the heavy burden

Of their dreams, the jaws move,

Chewing a nonexistent turnip.

‘Stand back, leave me alone, submerged people,

Go away, I haven’t dispossessed anyone,

Haven’t usurped anyone’s bread.

No one died in my place. No one.

Go back into your mist.

It’s not my fault if I live and breathe,

Eat, drink, sleep and put on clothes.’ “

 

In my youth I had had two near-death experiences. That was by the time I was fifteen. By thirty I had encountered three more. The collective intensity of the experiences left me asking myself, ‘why me? Why have I survived?’ Instead of giving in to the impression that I had been specially singled out for salvation, I chose to live with the experiences and never forget them. Further, they have taught me about the preciousness of each living moment of my life…the people that fill it, their lives, and the aliveness of my own senses. This has strengthened my writing by giving it muscle and immediacy.

 

This is perhaps how and why memory is so important to me. It forms the very bedrock of my creative process. I draw material from my storehouse of memory, distilling detail and spirit, crafting a work. It is perhaps only when I am travelling do I keep a notepad for jottings – impressionistically tracking the course of my journey with brief notations, stray names and significant images. Later, much later, when I sit down to write, these notations serve as small windows through which I can look into a series of incidents alive with people and feelings. In the process I recall my own feelings, attitudes and perceptions, following as it were a series of associations that each in turn reveal their own truths. So then, reading through my travel notations is akin to dipping into memory and unravelling associated experiences. This then influences the very nature of my narrative, cross-connecting and telescoping sensory impressions, feelings and ideas.

 

The impact of the Self is emphatically present in my choice of themes, concerns, and issues. As I had mentioned earlier, my own multi-cultural origins instilled in me a feeling of not belonging, of living on the fringes. I unconsciously sought out and befriended other fringe dwellers. Living in Calcutta, most of my friends were either Anglo-Indians, Chinese settlers, Tibetan refugees, Bene Israel and Baghdadi Jews, Armenians and displaced Burmese. And later, when I travelled with my father on camping trips I found affinities with people from traditional communities living in and on the edges of forests. They were Santhals, Gonds, Oraons and others.

 

My early writing found its expression through two strands – both expressions of the Self and its search for belonging. The first were fictional prose narratives exploring the lives of Anglo-Indians and other fringe dwellers and the second was concerned with my own religious and quasi-religious searching through poetry. This phase found expression through volumes of poetry such as Hunger, Thirteen Poems, The Circle and Swimming Into The Dark and volumes of stories such as Survivors, Return To Mandhata and Notebook Of A Footsoldier.

 

The second phase, even though in similar vein, widened its base. Narratives drew on themes that reflected the expanding awareness of Self and the connections it drew from more varied experience. My own professional work and personal travel preferences took me into remote geographical areas of the country and exposed me to the lives of people from traditional communities. I became increasingly aware that the forces of nationalism were ironing out and mainstreaming individual community identities and creating a characterless whole that lacked vibrancy, was intolerant and narrow-minded.

 

I witnessed the Bhil, Bhilala, Warli, Katkari, Malhar Koli, Juang, Toda, Irula, Kurumba, Kota, Paniyar and other such communities losing their natural homelands, dialects and livelihoods; their sacred places either appropriated or violated, their identities steamrolled.

 

These experiences transformed the Self. Even though I found points of empathy between myself and the people who I encountered, I was overwhelmed by the sheer magnitude of their predicament. The Self took on the bardic role of witness and of storyteller. I was moving increasingly closer to a state of belonging through my writing.

 

This phase was best expressed through books such as Dangs:Journeys Into The Heartland, Kutch:Triumph Of The Spirit, The Singing Bow:Song–Poems Of The Bhil,  Call Of The Blue Mountains, The Last Jungle On Earth and River Day.

 

The present evolving phase of the Self is far too near me now to articulate clearly or objectively. What I can say though is that one volume from my second phase set the tone for this present phase of evolution .It was The Last Jungle On Earth, a fable that has triggered the writing of my new novel The White Cranes Of Sundargarh. I find that the form of fable or allegory will best be able to carry my fictional narratives as I dig deeper to the very core of myth and legend. It is there perhaps that I will find the true reality of my Self.